boy :/

turrtles:

my boyfriend and I are on a date

while we’re on a date

twister:

“You have a choice in this world, I believe, about how to tell sad stories, and we made the funny choice.”

—  John Green, The Fault in Our Stars (via coral)

gayer-than-you:

madammuffins:

caffeinewitchcraft:

Relationships get so bananas when you start deciphering the other person’s love language.

Like I thought I was just acquaintances with this person because they never told me details about themselves and we just talked movies and writing . But then they made time to have coffee with me and they showed up out of breath because they ran. Like. RAN to be on time for coffee with me?

And I was like “i don’t mind waiting” cause I never want to run

But they said they wanted every minute they could get because I’m so busy usually

Which is when it clicked that I didn’t get how much they considered me a friend because I just straight away didn’t see MY signs of affection in them and went “cool! Casual buds it is.” But now that I’m seeing their signs of affection, I feel a little silly for dismissing them like that even though I felt like we could be best bros.

Anyway, some people show affection through time or intensity or commitment and not vocally. I really have to remember that!

Fyi- just in case you didn’t know.

TOUCH got a bro that likes to give high fives? Back slaps? Are they a hugger? Do they not blink an eye at cuddles?

QUALITY TIME this bro will (as op stated) sprint to spend every minute possible with you. Every second that you guys are together is a declaration of affection.

WORDS does your bro tell you how amazing and great and fantastic and wonderful you are all the time? Guess what…?

GIFTS do they buy you coffee? Snacks, energy drinks, spot you at the restaurant? Did that one key chain removed you of them? Ding ding!

ACTS are they always doing things for you? Ie: Nah bro, I got this, I can do that, need me to get anything for you, I can help with…?

PRO TIP - The way people show love is often how they receive love as well.

I reblogged this recently but it got better and ive been thinking and learning a lot abt love languages so

flowerais:

You’re healing every time you

• get out of bed because there’s something you’re excited about.
• don’t think about people who left.
• clean the clutter in the room and dishes in your sink.
• smile at yourself and random people.
• do something kind and out of the blue to make someone happy.
• work out or meet with friends even though you have no energy to.
• calm yourself down when your thoughts race.
• remember to drink water.
• don’t dwell on things you can’t control.
• do things good for yourself, even though you have no motivation.
• tell yourself that you’re growing from this, and you won’t feel like this forever.